What is this magical Sex Toy that everyone seems to ask for? want? or are curious about? Massager Wands have various names but many know these Adult sex toys just as a Hitachi, which is an older brand, but that’s not the actual toy type. With all the various toys in the world, it took me a while to muster up the nerve to give the wand a chance. When in reality, it should have been one of the first toys out there, I should’ve bought.
But, I always felt like Wands were dinosaurs! They are like the OG gangstas of vibrator world, with the Hitachi Magic Wand as their spokesperson! Wands started it’s legacy awhile ago and it’s been around for quite some time. Every time, I saw a wand I’d think of a “soccer mom” and feel like I need to use it while wearing legwarmers, a leotard and a headband *think FLASHDANCE* after seeing their old box haha. With all the new and improved toys out there, I never thought I should get something that plugged into a wall, let alone had its classic looks of the basic handle and large vibrating tip.
BUT! “there is a reason people are still fascinated with dinosaurs” aaaaand, when your bestie tells you that Wands are the best thing since sliced bread AND she happens to work at an adult shop… you can’t really ignore her opinion. lol
Wand massagers are a great necessity.
Wands are great for a regular ol’ body massage and to relax one’s muscles. This type of vibrator is a great “bedroom tool” to relax a person and a perfect pre-game build-up to explore a person’s erogenous zones. Whether it’s your back, limbs and leading to more traditional sexy-time areas. A Wand body massager’s perfect purpose is to literally vibrate a clit off! They are like the terminator of sex toys. Wands have one mission and that is to vibrate and hit the spot for a strategic forced orgasm…almost within minutes. When you find the perfect wand, you will use it and “You’ll be back” for more.
Wands come in all shapes and sizes, with a basic look to it all.
- The head that is the primary vibration source.
- A neck that sometimes in some styles of wands are adjustable and bend to be able to give more pressure.
- Then, there is the base which is the shaft to be able to hold and is the handle to direct where you would like to point that vibration in the right direction.
They can be small in size to fit in the palm of your hand and then some as large as your forearm. They all deliver various types of vibrations but it’s always good to have at least one in your arsenal of sex toys. Just remember that they have one big mission and that means high-intensity vibrations. There are some wands that won’t completely vibe you into numbness if it’s too intense and some that buzz just right. It’s not for the “beginner” per se, but it might be too strong for a newbie.
Also, Wands aren’t just a one trick pony that is focused for external clitoral stimulation. Many wands have attachments to be able to do so much more, they have attachments where you can stimulate internally and give g-spot stimulation or anal stimulation, etc etc.
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Sometimes, a gal needs a little spring in her step. Whether it’s once in a blue moon for fun or possibly when her libido needs to be a bit of a boost. What is a Clitoral Arousal gel, Foreplay gels, Female Stimulating Gels, Arousal Balms and Oils, Sex Arousal Creams, Clitoral Stimulants, Orgasm Creams or Clit creams… Whatever you want to call them. … are a great way to bring that … Continue reading What is a Clitoral Arousal Gel or Enhancement Cream!?!?
Once you’re able to figure out which muscle you need to be squeezing for your kegel exercises. Doing your exercises almost becomes a chore. So, for the few girls i’ve talked to this week, Let’s do a Kegel Song Challenge! My trick for doing a simple kegel exercise once a day, is to listen to a song and squeeze/hold to the bass line of a … Continue reading Kegel Song Challenge
Vibrators are pretty much any nifty electronic toy that can be used to just rub out a horrible kink in your neck or to stimulate the body’s nerves and erogenous zones! A lot of people want a vibrator but they don’t really know what kind and what they are called. So, these are the basic bitches of all basic vibrators! This will help ya out … Continue reading Basic Vibrators Lineup!!
So, i’ve been encountering this situation more and more… and it hurts my soul. Girls who aren’t sure if they have had or have EVER had an orgasm. All I want to do is become the Orgasm fairy! Just sprinkle some sunshine dust on the girl and Bam! Orgasm! Haha. I know it’s not that simple. But, I sure do wish I could make that … Continue reading To orgasm or not to orgasm! Is that even a question?
Well, kids. Time to celebrate and get foodsexual. It’s National Peanut Butter Day! As much as peanut butter is a staple in any poor man’s pantry, It’s also a necessity for your sexual health! Women! Peanut Butter is pretty high in monounsaturated fats which can improve your blood cholesterol levels. Which means you can decrease your risk of Heart disease (the #1 killer in women) and increase … Continue reading Happy National Peanut Butter Day!
Balls in your …VAjayjay!!! Ben Wa Balls, Orgasm Balls, Venus Balls, Kegel Balls, Geisha Balls Whatever you want to call them… let’s talk about putting Balls in your cooch! They are many names for these balls and there are many variations to them. But, the original Ben wa balls were just a single weighted ball that helped stimulate you internally while having or not even having intercourse. Traditionally, two balls … Continue reading What are Kegel Balls?
Many women brush Kegel exercises off as if it’s nothing. I hear the usual, “ohh I don’t have a problem down there!” blah blah blah. But honestly, I think it’s more preventative for later and well who doesn’t want to be able to control your muscles down there and have better orgasms! Kegel exercises were exercises that Dr. Arnold H. Kegel made popular by stating … Continue reading What are KEGEL EXERCISES? !?!?!
Recently, I headed out to a house party and ended up having girl talk with a mini group of gals. I stumbled into the convo and what was the topic? That’s right the unspoken “Anal Sex” discussion.
I got caught up in this conversation when this one girl said to NOT use any lube. I’m pretty sure my jaw dropped and couldn’t believe the next words coming out of her mouth. Apparently, her first experience wasn’t so pleasant and she had to take a visit to the hospital because (duh, she didn’t use lube and) she got an anal fissure (micro tear) from obviously friction and started bleeding when she went to the bathroom. She started spewing out how it was just because it was the first time. Haha our bums don’t have a hymen, people. It ain’t like that. It seems to be coming up a lot around me, and all I want to do is yell from the rooftops. WHERE DA LUBE AT?!?! Read more to get some recommendations and learn a few pros and cons on what to use!
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