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Come Through and Chill – Miguel feat. J. Cole, Salaam Remi

This is the perfect stand in front of the mirror while you’re feeling yourself.  Where you just want to body roll and be a sensual sensei. Either that or roll around in the sheets like you got mad sexy skills. 😉 This is one of those songs where you can feel the emotions and feel good.

Here is the music video, which pairs well with the song.  I’ve always been a big fan of R&B growing up in Southern California and it’s always a nice to become of fand and support a Socal Native.  Miguel has such an amazing voice and swag. Check this song out, it won’t disappoint.

National Orgasm Day July 31st

National days are kind of my thing.  It’s a pleasant day to remind you of something you aren’t aware of, something that you may love or something that needs more acknowledgement.

July 31st, is National Orgasm Day. A day to appreciate something so simple yet so important.  Everyone’s life is so complicated and busy that something as treating yourself to a good orgasm gets put on the back burner.  What better way to increase your quality of life both mentally and physically by achieving an orgasm or two.

When you look at the bigger picture of the benefits of having an orgasm, you might want to set some time aside today and get to work.

  • Boost your circulation. <3
  • Improve digestion.
  • Helps protect against osteoporosis, cancer and heart disease.
  • Induces cortisol which is a natural anti-inflammatory hormone which reduces the skin inflammation and promotes healthy skin and makes you look young and carefree!
  • Builds brain function, your immune system (by fighting cells – kick that cold and flu in the butt) and repairs tissues.
  • Nip Depression in the bud.
  • Your levels of Oxycontin increase which is the bonding and “love hormone” which can increase connections and drive your passion levels.

Love yourself, get those orgasms and if you have a partner give them an orgasm too! <3

WeVibe Charger Cable Hack

When you buy something new and exciting, you automatically think of all the cool new features and tech-y things it can do.  Our minds tend to slip of the information and the things that come along with it like up keep, warranties, etc. etc.  Then, the one main feature is the one thing that might hinder your use of it or even annoy you, like being rechargeable.

One of my favorite adult toy companies out there is We Vibe but sometimes their charging cord and adapter really likes to irk me at times, almost as much as Fun Factory’s charging adapter too.  Both have a magnetic adapter that snaps together connect the USB power cord to the toy.

So you can imagine my frustration when, I’ve walked away for a couple hours with the thought in mind that my toy is comfortably charging this entire time… to come back and find that it’s completely dead still since I didn’t have the connectors hit perfectly.

The cords have been wrapped tight to be shipped and stored away in the pretty packaging but it takes a hot minute for it to unwrap, de-kink and stay straight.  You can always go the “Put a heavy book on it route” or! You can do my little troubleshooting hack!

Very rarely do I recommend you to keep the box to a toy (unless they are the crazy type that require to have it for their warranty) .  But this time I think it’s a great idea if you have a Wevibe Tango or Touch!  The box it comes in has the perfect small indention for the cord to weave through and it won’t wiggle like a worm.   Just a small hack I tend to do when the cords just don’t seem to like to stay in place. ;P If you decorate the box, it also help for discretion while charging.

Hope that helps all you kiddos out there! <3 <3 <3

Rubber Johnny Shaped Pencil Eraser

RubberJohnnyShapedEraser_02I’m a big fan of Groupon.com, a deals website where you can find everything under the sun including… Erasers! … in the shape of condoms haha

I was browsing the site for pencils and drawing supplies and I stumbled on these erasers.  Another fun novelty to stash in case you don’t want any one to walk away with one of your erasers.

Check out this cool link and grab yourself a pack to “prevent mistakes”.

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Consensual Sex Activity Check off List

alright aaaaaaaalright, I’m FINALLY posting this up.

It’s a Consensual Sex Activity list!  This is a basic list that has activities where you can see what might interest you or not.

I know that a lot of people find these type of lists silly, but I find that it really helps when you want to talk to your partner when you want to see what they are all about and vice versa.

When, you discuss this with your partner.  Come into this with an open mind and heart.  There may be things that you are into which will make your partner cringe.  OR enhance the relationship. If you haven’t tried it, but know it will be hot to try out with your partner since they might be into it, put it in the neutral or maybe yes column.  Then, Research! and see if that might be something you’d really be down with.

The, Maybe No’s and definite No’s are a great way to communicate and start discussing with your partner. It will open a line of communication where you will both either agree on the same thing or form an understanding of why one partner might be so into such activity.  You may not even know that there is something out there that exists and might spark that bedroom adventure spark!

Click here to download:
Consensual Sex Activity Check off List

Just filling out the list is almost as awkward as having the talk with you partner, if you aren’t at that level yet.  A fun way to make it into a game is to fill them out.  Then, cut out the Definite Yes! activities and put it into a jar and when you guys want to plan your next sex adventure you can just draw out one of the activities from the jar to try out and to keep things interesting.  The, Maybe and neutrals can be done when you’re feeling extra adventurous.  But, of course please plan accordingly haha.

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Trey Songz- Panty Wetter

I just added a few songs by Trey Songz to my Slow Grind playlist.   Let me just say, Trey Songz is seriously the Slow Grind king.  Majority of all his songs just puts you in that “ooo baby making music” mood.

Let these Basics take over your Senses this Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s day is just around the corner and a mix of emotions might be coming over you.  You either love the holiday or loathe it.  Since everyone associates Valentine’s Day with going over the top with materialistic things, they usually end up with gifts that are literally going to add pounds to your bum or end up in the trash two days later.   What people forget is that Valentine’s Day is about showing your feelings to your partner and expressing it in every way possible whether it’s physical or mentally.

Couples tend to forget that going back to the basics can be the most effective way to connect with each other.  The simplest, most basic little notions might be the trick to spice things up instead of going over the top with sky writing and cutting down every flower within a ten mile radius.

Let’s face it – Valentine’s Day “kits” tend to be a little much, but it is all about how you use them.   These cheesey yet most effective sensual tools will create a different experience and light that flame of passion.

Be prepared with everything beforehand, whether that means having the array of “tools” you might want to indulge in handy as well as knowing how to use said tools.  Even though, this is one day out of the year that you want to make special, it’d be nice to grab fun stuff that you’ll be able to use again and again. So, grab that pad of paper and pencil and jot down a  sexy shopping list with some of these fun bedroom props.

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Let your bodies do the talking and put those 5 senses to good use!

 

Wanted BOB Battery Operated Boyfriend!: Vibrators 101 Workshop

 

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It’s a new year! Let’s start anew and grab yourself a new Battery Operated Boyfriend… 😛 or Girlfriend! This is a nice workshop to figure out what type of vibrator you might want and what types of vibrators are out there! You can learn all the amazing qualities your new “Battery Operated Boyfriend” should have like materials that are body safe and all the deal breaker bad qualities.

Feb. 19th, 2016
8PM
@ Excitement
19841 Ventura Blvd
Woodland HIlls, CA 91364

RSVP Link below:
bobvibe101.splashthat.com

This is a female only workshop.

Anne-Marie – Do It Right

This has been on repeat on multiple playlists that I have.  It’s  one of those slow grinding type of songs to dance to when you’re just feeling yourself that day.  😀

Go ahead girl, dance in front of that mirror with your bad self.