First off, CONGRATS on trying to bring some baby into this world! … and actually having sex for the “procreation” side of it all. haha
As far as your question is concerned, NOT ALL LUBE is created equal. Whatever you probably have at home or are trying to use, I reeeally want to say no. There are some lube specifically made for it, but majority of the lubes on the market are not sperm-friendly.
That is great that you want to use products that are natural for your sexual lifestyle. Keep in mind oils are not bad for you,and as always what you use is always a personal preference. If you are using it for only external use and mainly for sensual massages, then I have no problem with saying that is a-ok.
IT’S NOT A MYTH! THIS IS REAL LIFE MAN! Dr. Ernst Grafenberg is GOD. This is the fella who found it, studied it and pretty much discovered the G-spot. Of course, it had to become a fad and in the 80s sexologists made it known and thus the G-spot became famous.
This “Graffenberg” Spot isn’t some mythical thing that only comes out when it’s a full moon or when magic fairy dust is sprinkled on it. The only reason it’s just hard to find is because the Gspot is made of erectile tissue. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? It’s just like men’s erectile tissue (aka their PENIS) that it grows when engorged with blood. So, many people may have gone on their G-spot scavenger hunt when it was lurking in the shadows since it’s easier to find when you are aroused or if you’ve already reached an orgasm.