alright aaaaaaaalright, I’m FINALLY posting this up.
It’s a Consensual Sex Activity list! This is a basic list that has activities where you can see what might interest you or not.
I know that a lot of people find these type of lists silly, but I find that it really helps when you want to talk to your partner when you want to see what they are all about and vice versa.
When, you discuss this with your partner. Come into this with an open mind and heart. There may be things that you are into which will make your partner cringe. OR enhance the relationship. If you haven’t tried it, but know it will be hot to try out with your partner since they might be into it, put it in the neutral or maybe yes column. Then, Research! and see if that might be something you’d really be down with.
The, Maybe No’s and definite No’s are a great way to communicate and start discussing with your partner. It will open a line of communication where you will both either agree on the same thing or form an understanding of why one partner might be so into such activity. You may not even know that there is something out there that exists and might spark that bedroom adventure spark!
Click here to download:
Consensual Sex Activity Check off List
Just filling out the list is almost as awkward as having the talk with you partner, if you aren’t at that level yet. A fun way to make it into a game is to fill them out. Then, cut out the Definite Yes! activities and put it into a jar and when you guys want to plan your next sex adventure you can just draw out one of the activities from the jar to try out and to keep things interesting. The, Maybe and neutrals can be done when you’re feeling extra adventurous. But, of course please plan accordingly haha.