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What is a Wand? | the adult sex toy massager

What is this magical Sex Toy that everyone seems to ask for? want? or are curious about?  Massager Wands have various names but many know these Adult sex toys just as a Hitachi, which is an older brand, but that’s not the actual toy type.  With all the various toys in the world, it took me a while to muster up the nerve to give the wand a chance.  When in reality, it should have been one of the first toys out there, I should’ve bought.

But, I always felt like Wands were dinosaurs!  They are like the OG gangstas of vibrator world, with the Hitachi Magic Wand as their spokesperson!   Wands started it’s legacy awhile ago and it’s been around for quite some time.  Every time, I saw a wand I’d think of a “soccer mom” and feel like I need to use it Old_Hitachi_Magic_Wand_boxwhile wearing legwarmers, a leotard and a headband *think FLASHDANCE* after seeing their old box haha.  With all the new and improved toys out there, I never thought I should get something that plugged into a wall, let alone had its classic looks of the basic handle and large vibrating tip.

BUT! “there is a reason people are still fascinated with dinosaurs” aaaaand, when your bestie tells you that Wands are the best thing since sliced bread AND she happens to work at an adult shop… you can’t really ignore her opinion. lol

Body massage!Wand massagers are a great necessity.

Wands are great for a regular ol’ body massage and to relax one’s muscles.  This type of vibrator is a great “bedroom tool” to relax a person and a perfect pre-game build-up to explore a person’s erogenous zones. Whether it’s your back, limbs and leading to more traditional sexy-time areas. A Wand body massager’s perfect purpose is to literally vibrate a clit off! They are like the terminator of sex toys.  Wands have one mission and that is to vibrate and hit the spot for a strategic forced orgasm…almost within minutes. When you find the perfect wand, you will use it and “You’ll be back” for more.

I am the most Wand-erful Massager of the Adult Sex Toy World!Wands come in all shapes and sizes, with a basic look to it all.

  • The head that is the primary vibration source.
  • A neck that sometimes in some styles of wands are adjustable and bend to be able to give more pressure.
  • Then, there is the base which is the shaft to be able to hold and is the handle to direct where you would like to point that vibration in the right direction.

They can be small in size to fit in the palm of your hand and then some as large as your forearm.  They all deliver various types of vibrations but it’s always good to have at least one in your arsenal of sex toys.  Just remember that they have one big mission and that means high-intensity vibrations.  There are some wands that won’t completely vibe you into numbness if it’s too intense and some that buzz just right.  It’s not for the “beginner” per se, but it might be too strong for a newbie.

Also, Wands aren’t just a one trick pony that is focused for external clitoral stimulation. Many wands have attachments to be able to do so much more, they have attachments where you can stimulate internally and give g-spot stimulation or anal stimulation, etc etc.

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What is a Clitoral Arousal Gel or Enhancement Cream!?!?

Sometimes, a gal needs a little spring in her step.  Whether it’s once in a blue moon for fun or possibly when her libido needs to be a bit of a boost.

What is a Clitoral Arousal gel, Foreplay gels, Female Stimulating Gels,  Arousal Balms and Oils, Sex Arousal Creams, Clitoral Stimulants, Orgasm Creams or Clit creams…

Whatever you want to call them.

… are a great way to bring that boost to the table.  Often mistaken as a lubricant (which is for decreasing friction), an arousal gel has one sole purpose and that is to put the pedal to the metal with your orgasm.  They are a topical gel or cream that you apply a dime size amount onto your clitoral hood under, on and around it.  Rub around and it brings blood flow down to your clit, so you become more aroused and sensitive.  Which leads to you having a more heighten and faster orgasm. or well.., that’s the end goal.

Ingredients

Each arousal or enhancement gel is different but they tend to stick to the same type of ingredients. It’ll either have vasodilator or ingredients that act like a magnet for your blood to get redirected to your clit, such as:

  • L-Arginine
  • Niacin
  • Yohimbe Root
  • Ginseng

Other ingredients give a warm, pulsing and almost buzz- like effect.

  • Cinnamo-mum Zeylanicum aka Cinnamon

and some ingredients have a cooling, tingling effect to add stimulation.

  • Methyl salicylate aka wintergreen oil 🙂
  • Menthol

Either way, those ingredient’s job is to get the blood flowing where you applied it topically.   Paired with a great partner or a lovely sex toy, it can be able to heighten a sensation that you may only be getting the tip of the iceberg.

I admit, it isn’t for everyone and sometimes if you are more sensitive the ingredients might cause irritation and sometimes you might not even have any type of reaction at all.  But, for the other gals who want to try it out.  It can be pretty rocking!  A lot of adult shops carry trial sizes for a couple bucks which is the route I recommend.  You can check a couple out and see which one works well with your body and then invest in a larger quantity.  Always remember adult products don’t always have to be a crutch if there is “something wrong”, you may just want to try something to spice things up.  Why not try an arousal gel and see what your body is capable of! 🙂